Issues & Gossip

When we have an issue with someone else, lack of self confidence often moves us to discuss it with third parties before we discuss it with them. When we do this, however, we are probably sincere in seeking to check our thinking with those whom we consult. Still, it looks like gossip. And the more people we consult - the more like gossip it becomes.

Proverbs 25:7-9 tells us to address the issue directly with our target without telling anyone else.